Thursday, 25 January 2024

Nothing's changed.


My sister recently sent me this photo; she's on the left, with me on the right. I must have been 4 or 5.


I think that the photo proves that scruffiness can be a congenital condition. It is inbuilt in some people (me) and difficult to treat. There is no panacea, no inoculation, no magic pill.

We were both at schools in East Grinstead when the photo was taken; mine was the Highfield pre-Prep run by a Mr Gordon-Walker, the brother of Patrick G-W MP. I don't think there's any doubt, I was the scruffiest pupil there.

There is a touch of Richmal Crompton's 'Just William' in my demeanor; not that I would have heard of him at the time.

I have no idea why I should have been so naturally scruffy, I think my mother must have despaired. I'm not so bad these days, but most of my life has be spent unconsciously worshiping at the altar of scruff.

I still never comb my hair; what there is of it.

 

34 comments:

Yael said...

You both look very nice, I'm just wondering if your feet weren't cold, you're wearing coats and your feet are bare.

Cro Magnon said...

I think that cap, blazer, shorts, and sandals, was standard wear for school in those days. I have no idea what season it was.

River said...

I've seen a photo of my dad with his parents and two brothers. Mum and dad and both brothers neat and clean, my dad looking like he was playing in a bucket of coal.

gz said...

Interesting seeing the adults in the children

Cro Magnon said...

I have no idea why I've always been scruffy. I have a school photo, taken around the same time, which shows me looking like a tramp, with tie sideways, socks down, and messy hair. All the other small children look like little angels.

Cro Magnon said...

I'm not proud of my state, but it seems to have followed me through life.

Tasker Dunham said...

We don't mind, so long as you are not smelly.

Cro Magnon said...

I do hope not, other than patchouli of course.

Yorkshire Pudding said...
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New World said...

You are obviously not a long term reader here.

Cro Magnon said...

I'm now wondering what YP wrote!!!

The Weaver of Grass said...

Nature versus nurture Cro - I wrote on the same thing today. Obviously we were never

The Weaver of Grass said...

(to continue) meant for each other. Get those socks pulled up and put 'comb and hairbrush' on your net shopping list!!!

Yorkshire Pudding said...

It was addressed to you Cro and not to her - that is why I deleted it.

gz said...

And your sister is still neat and tidy!!

Jacqueline @ HOME said...

I think you look sweet { both of you } ... I was a real tomboy and looked pretty scruffy ..... I'm not sure that I like it when little children look pristine .... they need to jump in puddles and climb trees ! I love the sandals .... I think we all had them ,almost always from Clarks. XXXX

New World said...

He was stupid like he can be in deleting.

New World said...

Her! Says it all.

Travel said...

What counts is the contents not the container.

Cro Magnon said...

Oh well.

Cro Magnon said...

Too late now. I'm not really scruffy these days, more 'casual'.

Cro Magnon said...

Yes, those classic Clarks sandals, I loved them. You could do anything in them!

Cro Magnon said...

My contents aren't all that good either.

local alien said...

You do look like Just William. I loved his books when I was a child. Our small town library had most of the books. An adorable scamp

Graham Edwards said...

If I ever come across a photo of me at that age I think the only difference was that I think our socks came up to our knees. Our uniform was green.

Susan said...

That is a lovely photo of you and your sister. There is nothing scruffy looking there. Nice wool top coats with hats says, well dressed and cared for children.

Gemma's person said...

Patchouli...you can't be all bad.

River said...

Oh! The migraines I get from Patchouli! I hate the stuff! When people on the buses are wearing it I have to breathe through several layers of folded handkerchief.

Cro Magnon said...

We had a lot in common, other than the 'adorable'.

Cro Magnon said...

I have worn patchouli since the 60's. Sorry!

Cro Magnon said...

My next school wore knee-length socks with red and green stripes at the top.

Cro Magnon said...

We were very well dressed and cared for, but I had a knack of making the well dressed bit look as if I wasn't.

Coppa's girl said...

This made me smile and brought back memories of the days when the school uniform was bought at least two sizes too big so that you could "grow" into it!
I had a similar photo - in my summer uniform, and oversized blazer, though we wore panama hats in summer.

Pipistrello said...

What a cute photo! I, too, was a child with a touch of the ungroomed about me :) My school photos are quite amusing in that respect.

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