My sister recently sent me this photo; she's on the left, with me on the right. I must have been 4 or 5.
I think that the photo proves that scruffiness can be a congenital condition. It is inbuilt in some people (me) and difficult to treat. There is no panacea, no inoculation, no magic pill.
We were both at schools in East Grinstead when the photo was taken; mine was the Highfield pre-Prep run by a Mr Gordon-Walker, the brother of Patrick G-W MP. I don't think there's any doubt, I was the scruffiest pupil there.
There is a touch of Richmal Crompton's 'Just William' in my demeanor; not that I would have heard of him at the time.
I have no idea why I should have been so naturally scruffy, I think my mother must have despaired. I'm not so bad these days, but most of my life has be spent unconsciously worshiping at the altar of scruff.
I still never comb my hair; what there is of it.
You both look very nice, I'm just wondering if your feet weren't cold, you're wearing coats and your feet are bare.
ReplyDeleteI think that cap, blazer, shorts, and sandals, was standard wear for school in those days. I have no idea what season it was.
DeleteI've seen a photo of my dad with his parents and two brothers. Mum and dad and both brothers neat and clean, my dad looking like he was playing in a bucket of coal.
ReplyDeleteI have no idea why I've always been scruffy. I have a school photo, taken around the same time, which shows me looking like a tramp, with tie sideways, socks down, and messy hair. All the other small children look like little angels.
DeleteInteresting seeing the adults in the children
ReplyDeleteI'm not proud of my state, but it seems to have followed me through life.
DeleteAnd your sister is still neat and tidy!!
DeleteWe don't mind, so long as you are not smelly.
ReplyDeleteI do hope not, other than patchouli of course.
DeletePatchouli...you can't be all bad.
DeleteOh! The migraines I get from Patchouli! I hate the stuff! When people on the buses are wearing it I have to breathe through several layers of folded handkerchief.
DeleteI have worn patchouli since the 60's. Sorry!
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ReplyDeleteYou are obviously not a long term reader here.
DeleteI'm now wondering what YP wrote!!!
DeleteIt was addressed to you Cro and not to her - that is why I deleted it.
DeleteHe was stupid like he can be in deleting.
DeleteHer! Says it all.
DeleteOh well.
DeleteNature versus nurture Cro - I wrote on the same thing today. Obviously we were never
ReplyDelete(to continue) meant for each other. Get those socks pulled up and put 'comb and hairbrush' on your net shopping list!!!
ReplyDeleteToo late now. I'm not really scruffy these days, more 'casual'.
DeleteI think you look sweet { both of you } ... I was a real tomboy and looked pretty scruffy ..... I'm not sure that I like it when little children look pristine .... they need to jump in puddles and climb trees ! I love the sandals .... I think we all had them ,almost always from Clarks. XXXX
ReplyDeleteYes, those classic Clarks sandals, I loved them. You could do anything in them!
DeleteWhat counts is the contents not the container.
ReplyDeleteMy contents aren't all that good either.
DeleteYou do look like Just William. I loved his books when I was a child. Our small town library had most of the books. An adorable scamp
ReplyDeleteWe had a lot in common, other than the 'adorable'.
DeleteIf I ever come across a photo of me at that age I think the only difference was that I think our socks came up to our knees. Our uniform was green.
ReplyDeleteMy next school wore knee-length socks with red and green stripes at the top.
DeleteThat is a lovely photo of you and your sister. There is nothing scruffy looking there. Nice wool top coats with hats says, well dressed and cared for children.
ReplyDeleteWe were very well dressed and cared for, but I had a knack of making the well dressed bit look as if I wasn't.
DeleteThis made me smile and brought back memories of the days when the school uniform was bought at least two sizes too big so that you could "grow" into it!
ReplyDeleteI had a similar photo - in my summer uniform, and oversized blazer, though we wore panama hats in summer.
What a cute photo! I, too, was a child with a touch of the ungroomed about me :) My school photos are quite amusing in that respect.
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