I bought this small embroidered 'cushion' from amongst the few small items of an elderly lady's boot sale stall. She had made it when she was small, had used it all her life, then told me that she had no further use for it.
In the country it's traditional to hang messages on the front door saying where one is; this one simply said she was in the garden.
Its naiveté is charming. A short message, a few flowers, and a butterfly; none of which is particularly well executed.
Children no longer make such things. They no longer embroider 'samplers', or messages such as the above. Boys no longer make pipe racks for their fathers in woodwork classes. Such things are from a bygone age.
When I bought the above (for a few centimes) the elderly lady looked quite sad. It was as if part of her life had ended. I told her that I would look after it, and use it when required. In fact it hangs by our fireplace in the sitting room. Our visitors pass Haddock's before getting to the house, so they would see me if I was there; making its use unnecessary.
Every time I look at it, I'm reminded of her kind wrinkled face, her traditional widow's weeds, and her natural warmth and charm. I suspect she'd been 'selling-up' in preparation for her next great adventure.
It's a beautiful little cushion and very well made for having been made by a child.
ReplyDeleteIt's also extremely soft, I think she must have filled it with down.
DeleteQuite delightful.
ReplyDeleteIt's beautiful, isn't it.
DeleteI love the memories that are tied up in this piece. I am guilty (many a time) of buying "stuff" (as my eldest daughter calls it, yet she is JUST as guilty) for sentimental reasons. Perhaps she was only parting with this as she could no longer garden? Sad.
ReplyDeleteThinking back, I would think she was at least 90 years old. Her gardening days were well and truly over.
DeleteThat is lovely and it has found the perfect second home. XXXX
ReplyDeleteYes, I look at it daily, and often think of the lady who made it.
DeleteHow charming . I just want to say that even today those little works take place at school. As you live in France already for so long, your children probably were born in France and also attended school there. You must have known what is called "travaux manuels" and is still part of instruction today. In Germany handmade things are a big tradition and at the end of the school year pupils have their arms charged with whatever you can imagine and at home you have to find a shelve to expose all those nice things . I have tree branches decorated with wonderful coloured Origami birds, done with special Japanese papers , by my grandson when he was only 7. Anyway your garden cushion is just a touching souvenir remembering the old lady.
ReplyDeleteI have one son who was born here, and the two older ones both went to school here; but I don't think we have any art work of theirs other than drawings. I was myself an Art Teacher, and I always sent children home for the holidays with masses of objects, paintings, and drawings. I bet their parents loved me!
DeleteI made beer glass coasters out of used matchsticks but then the teacher disappeared. We couldn't understand why until years later when we found that his peccadillo for having seven year old girls sitting on his lap was frowned upon. Bet the dirty sod still kept his pension.
ReplyDeleteWe had one of those at my Prep' School, and the nasty man went on to marry the poor boy's mother. Imagine that!!!
DeleteI suspect all schools have at least one.
DeleteAlthough she may have been sad to part with it I expect she would haven been pleased that it went to a good home.
ReplyDeleteI did try to reassure her that I would treasure it. I've never done that before.
DeleteI knit sew and make embroidery, which I though was dying out, but look on the net and it is thriving, not in the numbers as when I was a child, but it's still going. I love the simplistic design in your cushion, it has everything it needs.
ReplyDeleteIt was that simple design that appealed to me. I once found a very cheap 'Home Sweet Home' embroidery, of a very similar naiveté, and I didn't buy it. I've regretted it ever since.
DeleteThis cushion found the best home it could find.
ReplyDeleteIt's safe here for a good while to come. I'm pleased about that.
DeleteIt's nice that the unique cushion found a new home. Ever thought about embroidering a cushion of your own? I wonder what you would write on it.
ReplyDeleteMy youngest son embroidered one at school, which we still have somewhere. I can't remember what's on it.
DeleteI am so pleased that you promised it was going to a good home.It must have been hard for her to part with.I have a few things still that I made at school...a felt chicken,a sampler and a pot hedgehog that sit on my wall unit,Along with all the other stuff Ive kept from the 60s.I love things with memories to them!xx
ReplyDeleteI kept all my schoolboy drawings, prints, etc, in a small folio; then someone stole the whole lot. I'm still furious.
DeleteIt's beautiful. I can understand the lady's sadness.
ReplyDeleteI think she was genuinely upset at seeing it go.
DeleteSuch a sweet thing. She must have been happy to think someone else was going to treasure it.
ReplyDeleteI hope so. She was from Cazals.
DeleteA very nice story of amateur art. Who will you pass the cushion on to?
ReplyDeleteI expect it will simply stay here in the cottage.
DeleteYou're just a big softie!
ReplyDeleteI keep telling myself that.
DeleteThe ills from which we suffer most are those that never come
ReplyDeleteThat’s mine
https://disasterfilm.blogspot.com/2006/07/ills-from-which-we-suffer-most.html
That's a tad more sophisticated than mine above. My late mother used to collect Georgian Samplers, and had some real beauties. She sold them all.
DeleteIt's sweet. I had forgotten about such things.
ReplyDeleteCharming Cro and your telling of it makes it more so.
ReplyDeleteSuch a sweet piece, and a beautiful story behind it's existence.
ReplyDeleteI love embroidered home goods, tablecloths, samplers, cushions, they are a rarity nowadays.
~Jo
I think it's a treasure. I hope you over paid for it.
ReplyDeleteHand crafted and designed pieces like this are so very cherished.
ReplyDeleteThankyou for cherishing her work. I teach and practise many handcrafts. Look up the work of Cecile Francone, she is French & her work is amazing!
ReplyDeleteVery moving post. I can feel her sadness.Thank you for being kind to her.I see very little of it. Going to use this in a poem.
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