Saturday, 24 May 2025

Community.

 

Billy and I left the house, as usual, by the back gate. A lady I know waved as soon as we appeared; she was heading in the other direction, so we didn't talk.

Around the corner we met 'Bluebeard'. He has 'gardenified' the twitten behind our garages (above), with flower-filled planters. I call him 'Bluebeard' because he dyes his beard different colours (possibly according to his mood), and more often than not it's blue. He calls me 'darling', and we chat about his one Potato plant that he's mixed-in with all his flowers. He does a really great job. He was watering as we spoke.

Up by the church, I see Father Dominic rushing towards the vestry door, He waves and says a cheery 'Hello'; I reply with my usual 'Hello Father'.

Once in the 'Rest Garden' I release Billy from his lead and he rushes off to play with his friends. I chat to a few fellow dog-walkers, mostly women, then bask in the warm sunshine as I slowly walk my usual circuit.

Half way round I meet John and his skateboarding Black Lab'. He tells me of doing Shakespeare in New York, and some other thespian pursuits. He's quite a character.

I chat to a few more dog owners as I finish my circuit. Just small-talk, but very pleasant.

I leave the Rest Garden, cross the road, and enter the churchyard near where the German Messerschmidt crashed 82 years ago. I spot two soberly dressed men by the church tower, and see Father Dominic heading their way. 'Funeral?' I ask. He nods.

As I head for the exit of the churchyard, I spot my black friend with his nose stuck in his phone (as usual). He waves and I go over for a chat. He tells me that he used to live in Glasgow, and said what lovely people they are up there. We natter about the state of the world, and I leave the churchyard with Billy back on his lead.

On the other side of the road are a bunch of workmen sitting on the steps of the house they're working on. They all stroke Billy, and make light conversation. 

I head a few metres further down the hill then turn left into my road. One of my neighbours who is working on The Bishop's house stops for a chat, then I'm home; by the front door.

I sit down indoors and feel very contented. Our little community has come-up trumps. I'm very happy with where I live. 

22 comments:

  1. How nice to have friendly chatty neighbors, making a lovely walk more friendly.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. It is such a pleasure. I've never known anywhere as friendly as here.

      Delete
  2. That sense of belonging can easily be taken for granted but what you are describing is precious. Why not ask Bluebeard where he gets his beard dyes from? You could probably do with a make-over.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Blue looks good on him, although his pink days are not so appealing. Maybe I could go Mouse/Salt-n-Pepper.

      Delete
    2. Ask the long-suffering Lady Magnon for advice. It is often said that ladies prefer blondes.

      Delete
  3. It sounds like a very happy community.
    I've just walked the dog around the neighbourhood and haven't seen a soul - it's too early for most people to be up and about. We are all foreigners in a foreign land and people seem much more friendly than in the UK. I'm amazed at the number of people who speak English and are happy to chat.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Where we lived in France, people were always very friendly. There was a wonderful feeling of camaraderie that one often finds in farming communities. Sadly that has now mostly gone, and townies have moved in. We're very lucky here in Brighton; there's a real community spirit.

      Delete
  4. You're part of an interesting and friendly community. It's lovely to fit in and feel you belong to a neighbourhood like that.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. It certainly felt like that yesterday; a bit quieter today.

      Delete
    2. It is these posts I enjoy most. Thank you and take care. :)

      Delete
  5. Thanks for taking us along for the walk.

    ReplyDelete
  6. That sounds really special and lovely, Cro. What a good place to call home!

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. It really is, and on days like that it seems like the best place on earth.

      Delete
  7. You are fortunate to have such a lovely community of friends and neighbors.
    Bluebeard sounds a bit exotic, but his garden is outstanding.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Yes, he's a real character. The way he has single-handedly brightened-up our twitten is wonderful.

      Delete
  8. Great to hear a bit about your day. You posted about a house for sale recently and mentioned that it was next to your favourite Ice Cream Parlour and I thought then that it was a pity you no longer blog about your day to day activities such as trips to pubs or ice cream parlours. Glad you are so happy where you live. We do miss walking Sophie in the park and all the people we met.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. It just happened to be a particularly nice day. The sun was shining and everyone seemed very chatty. It's usually very pleasant here, but not always quite so much.

      Delete
  9. Your life is what I hope heaven is like. ;)

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I'm sure heaven would be friendlier than that other place.

      Delete

Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...