Tuesday, 14 October 2025

There but for the grace of god...

 

We have a TV programme in the UK where a large group of volunteer builders, plumbers, and electricians, give their free-time to improve the living conditions of a deserving person or family. The programme, called DIY SOS, has just started a new season, the first (I think) of which was aired a couple of weeks ago.

Isla (above) is an 8 year old child who has a rare genetic condition (Mandibuloacral Dysplasia?), and she needs a specially designed home to make her life more comfortable; which is what they delivered. They converted her unfriendly home into something far more disablement friendly.

Watching the programme humbled me! I suspect I'm not alone in moaning about silly things, but this young girl managed to smile through all her adversities. It made me realise what a charmed life I've led.

Like most people, I've had one or two blips, but in general it has been a smooth and comfortable life. I've achieved most of my aims, and have amazingly managed to do so without becoming bankrupt. I've done things that little Isla could only dream of.

Isla was so excited about her newly fitted-out home, she loved every bit of it, and never stopped smiling. You could hardly imagine a more excited and appreciative child. Her life will never really improve much beyond how she is now, but it will certainly be made far more comfortable. I can guarantee that she won't moan or complain.

We all need to witness people like Isla from time to time, just to re-confirm how lucky most of us are. And to ensure that we are kind to people who are not so lucky.

I send her my very best wishes.

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  1. These programmes are so humbling. XXXX

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    1. We tend to walk around in a bubble, and forget those around us who aren't so lucky.

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  2. I used to watch that TV programme in the past but I always ended up in tears.

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    1. Yes, it's often not an easy watch. But compelling, all the same.

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  3. I cried watching it, as always they met the needs of the whole family without losing the fact it a home. She does look a brave little girl.

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    1. I ended-up thinking how fortunate most of us are, that our lives are so easy. Little Isla wasn't so lucky.

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  4. Before I retired I worked in a Special Needs school. The children there had very complex physical needs and learning difficulties. Some spent their life on ventilators. The joy of life those children exhibited most days was uplifting beyond measure, it humbled me and made me realise how lucky I have been. How wonderful for Isla and her family. Regards Sue H

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    1. Well done for your work! It must be so difficult, yet so rewarding. Those children deserve the same love and attention as the rest of us. xx

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  5. Most of us don't appreciate how lucky we are. It's not a programme I've ever seen or been aware of, but how wonderful that the family, especially Isla, have had life made more comfortable.

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    1. It was a great gift from all the trades-people. They gave her everything she needed; and more!

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  6. I saw the programme myself and it was heart warming. Isla's mother and big sister also deserve a big shout out for their constant love and care. So many tradespeople came together to upgrade that house in just nine days. Human beings can be so wonderful.

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    1. I've seen several of these programmes in the past, but this one touched me more than most.

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  7. Sounds like good people, doing good works, something we all should do. Having been within a couple of millimeters of a wheelchair ten years ago, I smile everyday at the joys of life.

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    1. I moan occasionally about losing some of my mobility, but compared to many; I'm a Spring Chicken!

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  8. You are so right! We have no idea how hard life can be.
    It is heartwarming to see a little girl live a better life because of the good works of homebuilders.

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    1. Yes, they did a great job, and she was so happy!

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